It’s late, he’s
sleep and I’m plotting on my next “How do I love thee” act.
I’ve been
married for 12 years and I still get butterflies when I see my husband.
Sometimes just saying I LOVE YOU cannot begin to describe how you feel
about someone so special.
There are soooo
may ways to show him or her how much you love them other than the routine I
love you’s 4 times or more a day. Let’s spread the Love in more ways than one.
I hope after reading this your next plan is to get to planning....for LOVE!
Number One: I am a doodle head so let me start out
with the STICKY NOTES!!!! Don’t be a nuisance like me at times LOL, however
watch him smile when he comes to you with the sticky note in hand letting you
know he got it…..Your response may be more than you bargained for!
Number Two: I’m always on
the Go…..how about you? Most of us are in stores daily, we shop online daily
and in a lot of cases….it’s for US. LOL. Next time you’re out, think back on a
conversation that you once had with him about something he wanted or needed.
BIG or small pick it up for him. I like to buy things then I’ll leave it on the
bed or hang it up in the closet as if it’s not a big deal. I normally get a hug
or a huge smile from across the room which lets me know he found ittttt!
Number
Three: Cook dinner for them! Most of ya’ll are probably
like DUHH! Well, in this case I’m not talking about the typical favorite meal
of his that you cook often. Just because you’re married and in love does NOT mean
that you eat the same foods so make sure you’re not depriving him of something because
you don’t eat it! Go to Pinterest! All the recipes in the world are located
there. My husband does not eat seafood but I DO and when he cooks it for me….Ahhhhhhh,
life!
Number Four: Offer them
your skills for free! I’ll start this off with an example. My husband runs his
own business and had some issues with his previous web designer so I decided to
put my skills to work and offered to build him a website! Mission Accomplished,
he loved it. Does your husband need help marketing his business? Is he in
school and need a paper typed up? Does he need help with ANYTHING productive in
which you could be of assistance to him?...You get my point. Be a helper not
a Hinder!
Number Five: Send them a
picture of you two together! The FUN PART. I
often sneak in my room and close the door when I’m working on my crafts so my husband
never knows what I may come out with (unless he peeks when I’m not looking). To
his surprise my recent gift was a homemade picture frame in which I went to MS
Word, copied and pasted our names about 50 times in different colors, printed
it out, took a piece of cardboard cut it out in the shape of a rectangle and
glued the paper around the cardboard. Following that I simply glued our picture
on it and BOO-YAH- JUST US! I topped it off by digging through my stash and
finding a magnet in which I glued it to the back of the cardboard and it made a
perfect magnet for my refrigerator! Try doing this or something similar by making
a collage of pictures from
some of the most memorable moments during your relationship.
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| Javaree and Yolanda |
A good marriage
will require work! Why? IDK, it just does, lol. Think about it you get married
young, you grow old together and in the process you will change and that’s for
sure….its life. Having someone by your side to love you during these phases of
life is the best feeling in the world. I hope this post makes you want to put effort into showing them how thankful and blessed you are to have them in your life through more
than just words.
Happy WIFE, Happy LIFE
Lala
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