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6 Ways to have Fun with Your Spouse
“You don’t’ stop having fun when you get old, you get old when you stop having fun”

Wrestle
Sounds silly but I do it quite often in my place! It’s all about the kid in you, don’t be uptight, get loose. You can pillow fight, food fight….whatever your choice is…YOU start it!
Act out a movie scene
If its popular chances are we’ve done this. It’s hilarious; Scarface, Gladiator, Life, Adam Sandler movies, Coming to America…….pick your favorites. We all remember the lines in our favorite movies!
Hit the courts
Now this may not be as much fun if your husband is 6’5 like mine but give it a try. You stay active and most importantly its time well spent ……No cheating!
Spend time with other couples
I believe being social is important although some may beg the differ ….
“If you find another couple that you can both click with, then you can go out and you can do these fun things together. What you are doing is supporting and encouraging your relationship”….I can dig it!
Do Chores together
This is important….One person should NOT carry the load. Housework and chores can be fun if you tackle it as a couple/team. Not to mention the work will get done faster.  “If you work together and then play together, then there’s no resentment.”
Having fun does not have to be expensive
Money or not, you can have fun at almost no cost. Of course you got your typical movies nights or maybe you normally ride the town together. Try learning a new card game together, start a journal together….you get my point, be creative.  (Consider the savings)

In all, don’t be a sour puss. Having a spouse is exciting and you should find ways to JUST DO IT. Have Fun.

-lala

Bike ride – around the block or out and about!
Cook together – each taking turns with parts of the recipe 
Go see a play at a local theater
Do something in your house together that you've been meaning to re-do
Shop for something new for you and for him
Have a Picnic on the beach
Go to a Cooking class together
Yoga
Head to a coffee shop and chill out together 
Put photo albums of your family together (get organized)
......Just a few things to Keep in mind!
Feel Free to add on! 
Enjoy

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